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Emotional Skills, English

Why “Shame” Should Not Be a Long-Term Driving Force in Life

Emotions shape human behavior with over 200 distinct types managed by our limbic system and refined by the frontal lobe. How to manage emotions becomes crucial when considering shame—central in Eastern cultures—as it can serve as both a corrective signal and a harmful control tool. Embracing and transforming shame into a source of positive value is essential for balanced well-being.

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English, 人生の再構築, 人生重塑, 日本語

45歳のミッドライフ・クライシス探索:低迷から再生への心の転機

在一段引人深思的對話中,發現45歲常被視為人生中快樂感最低的年齡。快樂水平通常在出生時上升,隨著年齡增長到19到22歲達到巔峰,然後在45歲時減退,但46歲之後快樂再次上升,特別是在60歲以後。此現象稱為「中年危機」,而從西方占星學的觀點來看,45歲時冥王星的相位促使個人面對死亡及轉變的主題。這一階段,人們開始自我反思,例如「我的生命是否忠於自我?」而有些人則選擇追尋全新的生活方向,重獲快樂與生命的自主。面對中年危機儘管痛苦,但透過深思與選擇來重塑人生,始終是每個人必經的過渡,並可開拓新的生活可能性。

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English, Life Reframe

Why First Impressions Aren’t Always Reliable: The Power of Taking a Second Look

Many people rely on their instincts to make decisions because they believe intuition is often accurate. However, that’s not always the case. Over the past 20 years, research on first impressions has uncovered something crucial: the “primacy effect.” This effect means that the initial information we receive about a person has a stronger impact than

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Decisions, English

Why Perfectionism Never Works: The Benefits of Respecting Action

Action First vs. Thought First Balancing action and thought is an important skill to master. Sometimes, people regret not acting sooner, while at other times they wish they had planned more thoroughly. However, as humans, we are constantly making decisions, and we must learn how to do so effectively. The number of decisions we make

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English, Life Reframe

No Matter the Social Climate, Now is Always the Best Time

Every era has its own unique backdrop and social atmosphere. Often, individuals feel powerless to change the situation, thinking that no matter what they do, it won’t make a difference—so they decide to do nothing at all. However, this also presents an opportunity to try something from a different perspective. For example, a few days

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English, Life Reframe

What to Do When You’ve Lost Your Direction in Life?

There will be times in both your career and life when you feel like you’ve lost your way. You may realize you’re drifting aimlessly, whether it’s through challenges in relationships, family, or finances. Maybe you’ve been procrastinating, not wanting to face these issues, or perhaps you’ve confronted them but still feel unsure about your direction.

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